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By Denise Sanger Are you a bride to be that totally walks to a different drum then everyone else? Not looking to do the traditional wedding ceremony and reception? Read on for what one creative bride did! Ever feel like you should be back in the 70’s? Perhaps the 80’s? Maybe go so far as say you wish you were in the 20’s? Well, you can be - if only for a day. Have a wedding that hops everyone into a time machine, and whirl back into the 20’s where flappers and gangsters were the hip ones and no one had heard of todays issues. What a fantastic escape youll be providing for your guests. Walk into a ballroom, which can be a modern style, no need to make it too expensive. There can be a small stage to one side where a band can play, or perhaps there can be a jukebox. Black, red, blue, and white are thrown everywhere, but the lighting can be slightly dim. There can be images painted on the wall of a big time city, to give the party a feel of being outdoors even if it is December in Upstate New York. The tables (how about black?) and chairs (how about red?) can be off against the walls, a few candles on top of each table, and the dance floor can be dead center. Although gangsters were notorious for running the cities, there was also a certain romance to this time period that is perfect to capitalize on. From here there are two options that could be taken to keep this 1920’s feel. Option one is to find a jukebox from the time period, and everyone can jam to the sounds played in the 1920’s, from a newfangled gadget that was growing to be popular during that time period. Or option two, you can hire a band to play big band music from the time period you are shooting for, in this case, the 20’s, and Jazz might be more suitable to tie along with the gangster and flapper theme. Or option 3 hire a DJ to mix period music from the twenties with todays dance tunes. Charleston versus Booty Dancing anyone? Carry the gangster theme forward and you and your groom can be Bonnie and Clyde. Another option is for the bride to be decked out in a white flapper gown (See? You can still have the traditional wedding gown with a bit of you twist!) While the bridesmaids can be in the brides chosen color how about they also have a bit of the flapper look with a shorter bridesmaid dress and long pearl necklaces. Hats perched to the side in the same color replaces the stiff up do. The groom can be in a white gangster suit and his men can be in black gangster suits. Instead of walking down the aisle to the typical wedding theme, perhaps an upbeat jazz tune can be played instead (things to consider, would you rather the music being played live? Or through a jukebox? Either will provide that 20s feel to your guests.) The bride comes down the aisle, jazz music playing around her, her white flapper gown swishes with every step she takes, almost giving the illusion that she is dancing. Food and wedding favors are a few other things to be considered. Caesar salad, and Cobb salad were growing in popularity, and items such as Baby Ruth, Betty Crocker, and Kool-Aid were entering into the mainstream. During this time wine, and other alcoholic beverages where quite popular, since they were also attempting to be banned. You know how you always want something you cant have! But you dont have to let Prohibition put a damper on your modern day party if you choose to serve alcohol at your reception make it fun with a Bonnie & Clyde martini that you created just for your day. Soft drinks are also perfectly acceptable along with a nice punch. Shrimp cocktail, and build your own tacos could always be fun, but may be too laid back for what you have in mind. If youd like a sit down dinner for the wedding, chicken is always a good alternative, in whatever form you think best and usually reasonably priced. Some unique wedding favors for the guests to take with could include be instant photos of themselves from Polaroid cameras placed throughout the reception to be inserted into the photo frame/place card holders you conveniently place at each place setting. Long fake pearls or small flapper purses for the women and luggage tags for the men. Or how about a fun candle favor think Lucky Luciano or Al Capone and go with a Lucky In Love candle set in black, red, and white a great way to let your guests remember the fun they had at your unique wedding reception. With a wedding as unique as this one would be, your guests are sure to fondly remember and talk about your wedding day for years to come! Inexpensive Wedding Favors and Decorationshttp://buyweddingfavorsonline.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Denise_Sanger http://EzineArticles.com/?Roaring-Twenties-Wedding-Reception&id=494455 free still sex also fuck in granny well gay would sex might pics other sexy has rate is my for pussy could anal way hot came to could

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By Saad Saleem I wear eyeglasses because when I was small I used to love reading books, still do but as a result, as my mum says, my eyesight is weak. My family members are lucky because they dont need any aid for vision. I have been called many names for wearing eyeglasses, including 4 eyes and scientist. I have tried wearing contact lenses; they are one of the greatest inventions of the 20th century but unfortunately they didnt work out for me. This is because I have a habit of washing my face and splashing my eyes, during washing 2 or 3 times a day with cold water. I lost quite a few contact lenses as a result. I stopped splashing my eyes with cold water when my mum threatened me that she would put cello tap on my eyes. Still those were not a good choice for me because I suffer from hay fever, and I constantly have to rub my eyes and put eye drops, especially in summer when the pollen count is higher. Some people are lucky, doesnt matter whichever eyeglasses they wear they look cool and intelligent. I am not one of those lucky ones I suppose and which my brother reminds me almost everyday. When I first heard about laser eye surgery I thought that my prayers have been answered. Finally a way for me to get rid of my glasses and contact lenses, I thought. Is it? While laser eye surgery could be the best solution for someone like myself but this is not without certain risks. The word surgery itself is quite scary, but the good news it, it takes less then a minute for the laser procedure. The problem is you have to be the right candidate for it. Which means if you decide to have eye surgery and contact the laser eye clinic, the eye professional will ask you or give you a list of questions to answer. Based upon your answers and medical history, the eye professional will decide the best option for you. In some cases eye professional might show you the door, because it might be better for you not to have the eye surgery. The procedure actually involves removing a hair thin part of your cornea for the best vision to be achieved. The good thing is it can cure imperfections in the eyes, nearsightedness, farsightedness or even astigmatism. It takes few days for recovery but after that your eyes are cured and you wont need any aid for vision. The risk is low with laser eye surgery because the decision is not in your hand. You can decide to get the eye surgery but if you are not the best candidate your surgeon will refuse to carry out because of the risks involved. Even if you are the best candidate the eye professional will still inform you about the risks involved after the surgery. Since computer is used for controlling laser to remove tissue, you can be assured that the procedure or surgery will be almost perfect. As with any other surgery, you must remember that no surgeon in his right mind would give you any sort of guarantee. Some people have complained about night vision problem and light sensitivity after the surgery but the numbers are very small. Some statistic shows problems of about 3 to 4 in 5000 so realistically numbers are very small. Other risks of laser eye surgery, which have been noted in some people, include double vision, dry eye syndrome, I have mentioned already about light sensitivity and night vision problems. Some people would still need eyeglasses even after the surgery. These are the risks your eye professional or surgeon will inform you as well. You must remember to inform eye surgeon your medical history, any eye diseases you might have, even if you suffer from hay fever you must inform your eye surgeon. So far the statistic shows that there is improvement in vision but not all of them who have got it done achieved a perfect vision. As the time progresses we would be able to find more about it in few years time. One thing is for sure laser eye surgery is here to stay, because the eye surgeons are much more careful and the success rate is higher and is ever increasing day by day. Another good news is the prices are also going down day by day as the people are queuing up to get it done. A word of warning, if you have family members like mine then it would be best if you let them know about it after you have gone through the eye surgery. My brother did a very through research on the risks and negative side of laser eye surgery. Even he discovered few eye surgeons who wear eyeglasses themselves. I truly confess that it is impossible for me to win an argument with my brother. But this time I am sure that I am on the winning side. You can find more information on the following website address and I hope this would be helpful to you. Saad Saleem writes on a variety of subjects including eye care and laser eye surgery. 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